Out of Control offers a never-before-published perspective on why the entire premise of discipline is flawed. Dr. Shefali Tsabary reveals how discipline is a major cause of generations of dysfunction. The author goes to the heart of the problems parents have with children, challenging society’s dependence on discipline, daring readers to let go of fear-based ideologies and replace them with an approach that draws parent and child together. The key is ongoing meaningful connection between parent and child, free from threats, deprivation, punishment, and timeouts — all forms of manipulation.
I am so grateful to have found this book on most challenging days where I was questioning my inefficient parenting methods and my child was rebellious. It really helped me reset my mind and come back to working on my inner being rather than observing my child from my sense of lack. I would recommend this book to everyone involved in childcare - parents, grandparents, nannies, teachers. This is how we change the world - one child/family at a time.Buy on Amazon